Apr 15, 2025
Connecting the Dots: When Language Becomes More than a Warning Sign
Apr 18, 2022
"Don't Get Used to Our Grief"
If you haven't had time to watch the news and listen to several excellent interviews with President Zelenskyy this past week, I've curated some of the best for you.
But first we start with his wife.
One day this past week I listened to this interview by Christiane Amanpour with Olena Zelenska, in which she talks about not seeing her husband since the war began on February 24. She ended with, "Don't get used to our grief."
While I obviously cannot speak for everyone, I am fearful that most Americans are getting used to the Ukrainians grief. The people that I am in contact day in and day out say, "Yes, it's horrible, but I just can't look at those pictures" or "I don't want to think about it." Life for most of the world goes on as normal, while nothing is normal anymore. It makes me want to scream!
President Zelenzkyy said at the beginning of this war, "Don't look away" and I have not. I cannot, even though the images I see make me weep.
Later that same day the presidents of Poland, Estonia, Lithuania, and Latvia visited President Zelenskyy in Kyiv. When President Duda of Poland approached President Zelenskyy he wrapped his arm around him. Tears immediately came to my eyes. Human touch is so important and with his wife and children sequestered for their safety, he's probably not had anyone hug him in over a month. It also signified his support for him. It still touches me every time I look at it.
I pray they will have many more years with him.
Apr 11, 2022
What 60 Minutes Didn't Include
Apr 4, 2022
Without Victory There Is No Survival
“Victory. Victory at all costs. Victory in spite of all terror. Victory, however long and hard the road may be, for without victory there is no survival.”
Winston Churchill
Apr 3, 2022
Fill the Silence With Your Music!
I have been waiting to write a post about the Ukrainian music I have discovered over the past month and have grown to love. I will write that soon but have to share a pre-taped video message by President Zelenskyy that aired on The Grammys tonight.
Once again the people’s blood Is streaming …
"Dear God, calamity again!
It was so peaceful, so serene;
We had just begun to break the chains
That bind our folk in slavery
When halt! Once again the people’s bloodIs streaming …"
Taras Shevchenko, Ukrainian poet, 1859
My husband has been telling me to prepare myself, that the war in Ukraine is going to get much worse. I was still up last night/early morning when the news about the atrocities in Bucha hit the Ukrainian news. They are 7 hours ahead of me and the pictures were just starting to to be shown in the Telegram feeds of The Kyiv Independent and Ukraine Now. Ordinary people, some with their hands tied behind their back shot in the head including children, mass grave of about 300, some bodies had been partially burned, some decapitated, mutilated after death.
I have nothing intelligent to add. It's barbaric and evil and sends me to my knees begging God to stop this war.
Mar 30, 2022
You Don't Have to Suffer to Show Solidarity
I love history! I love researching and learning about what happened before I was alive. The Colonial Era and World War II are just two time periods that fascinate me. I have often wondered if I was alive during the '30's and '40's would I have been an isolationist?
On February 24, 2022 and the days after I had my answer -- NO! While I think I understand President Biden's reasons for not giving the planes and tanks President Zelenskyy so desperately needs, I alternate between frustration, anger, fear, and heartache that we are not doing more. Yes, we have given bunches of money, but it makes me think of the parent who shows love to their child by throwing money at them, when what they really need is their time and presence.
Since the slaughter started over a month ago, I won't let myself look at news while I am at work. But once I'm home I watch President Zelenskyy's nightly address to the Ukrainians, pour over newspaper articles, Telegram posts, tweets, Instagram posts, and watch the news the entire time, multi-tasking until I'm so overwhelmed by the horror of it all I have to stop. By then it's usually well after midnight. On the weekend, it's even worse because I have more time. I'm learning as much as I can about the history of Ukraine. I've been operating on little sleep for over a month.
But how dare I complain, when I choose to do this, instead of being in Ukraine having the horror thrust upon me. My husband has been imploring me to stop. He said, "You can't keep this up. What if this goes on for years?"
Don Lemon is interviewing someone right now as I'm typing this. He asked his guest what the best case scenario is for how long the war will last. He said several more months. Worst case scenario: years! How can it go on for years? There will be nothing of Ukraine left!
I discovered the account of ukraine_artistry on Instagram a few days ago. She shared a post entitled, "How Not to Talk about the War in Ukraine" When I got to the end of the 4th slide, the last line:
"You don't have to suffer to show solidarity."
That sentence jumped of my phone at me! I realized that I have been subconsciously feeling guilty that I have a warm home with my loved ones around me, that I'm not suffering -- that I am alive!
This realization hasn't curbed my nightly diet of all things Ukraine though. My heart still aches for them. I still don't know why this is so deeply and profoundly affecting me. But, it is causing me to cry out to God on their behalf.
Maybe that's my answer right there.